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Ending the Cycle: How to Break Addiction

Getting sober is a difficult task, but there are ways to make the job easier.

How to Break Addiction

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Why is Quitting So Hard?

Many people doĀ notĀ understand whyĀ othersĀ become addicted to drugs. They may assume that people with alcohol or drug issues simply lack morals or willpower.Ā However,Ā anyone whoĀ has hadĀ aĀ substance use disorder, or knows someone who has the disorder, knows how hard it is to break addiction.Ā DrugsĀ change the brain in ways that make quitting hard, even for those who want to.1Ā Ā 

On top of the fact that breakingĀ anyĀ behaviorĀ is difficult, quitting addiction comes with its unique hurdleā€”withdrawal, in the form of unpleasant, and sometimes life-threatening,Ā physicalĀ and psychological symptoms.Ā  Ā 

Physical Withdrawal SymptomsĀ 

Physical withdrawal symptoms from drug and alcohol addiction can include:Ā 

  • FatigueĀ Ā 
  • NauseaĀ 
  • HeadachesĀ 
  • Muscle painĀ 
  • ShakinessĀ 
  • VomitingĀ Ā 
  • SweatingĀ 

Psychological SymptomsĀ 

The psychological symptoms of drug and alcohol withdrawal often look like:Ā 

  • IrritabilityĀ 
  • DepressionĀ 
  • AnxietyĀ 
  • Mood swingsĀ 
  • RestlessnessĀ 
  • Sleeping difficulties

More severe cases of withdrawal can result in hallucinations, seizures, and delirium. The type of drug, the dosage, and the duration that one has taken the drug can all contribute to the severity of withdrawal.2 Many physical symptoms resolve in a few days to a few weeks, but psychological symptoms can linger for months after quitting an addiction.Ā Ā 

Steps to Break Addiction

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Admit the ProblemĀ 

The first step one must take to stop addiction is to admit there is a problem. Many people with substance useĀ disordersĀ use denial as a coping strategy and cannot or will not admit they haveĀ an actual issue.Ā Research shows that there are specific steps people must be willing to take to break addiction most effectively, and admitting the issue is the first barrier to break.Ā 

PrepareĀ for ChangeĀ 

Once youĀ can admit thatĀ you have an issue with substances and want to stopĀ anĀ addiction, you must prepare for change. ThisĀ stepĀ means changingĀ one’sĀ environment in a way that will promote sobriety. The changeĀ may look like ending friendships with others who have substance useĀ disorders andĀ avoiding friends and family who use substances around you.Ā Ā 

It can also be helpful to rid your home of any alcohol, bottle openers, wineĀ glassesā€”anything that reminds you ofĀ alcohol if you areĀ dealing with alcohol addiction.Ā The same goes for drug addiction; any drug paraphernalia should be thrown out to lessen the urge to use. At this point in the journey toĀ sobriety, itĀ isĀ also important to mentally prepare for theĀ lifeĀ changesĀ that will ensue once you stop addiction.3 Ā 

Take AccountabilityĀ 

Accountability is theĀ nextĀ step to break addiction. Taking personal responsibility for your drug abuse or alcohol abuse can be difficult but empowering. Instead of blaming substance abuse on outside factors, admitting that drug use is ultimately your choice can help you stay empowered, and ideally encourage you to avoid the substance in the future. Taking accountability can also illuminate why you usedĀ drugs in the first place; targeting that root issue can aidĀ you to quitĀ theĀ addiction.Ā  Ā Ā 

Seeking Professional HelpĀ 

Seeking professional help is another step to take to stop addiction.Ā Treatment can come in the form of inpatient and outpatient treatment, counseling and therapy, and other medical interventions. Treatment often lasts a lifetime, and every treatment plan is different depending on the person.Ā  Ā Ā 

Work Towards Self-Love

Lastly, investing in yourself, and learning self-love, is an invaluable tool to aid in quitting addiction.

TreatmentĀ to Quit AddictionĀ 

There are many different forms of addiction treatment. The tools commonly used to break addictionĀ include:Ā 

  • Therapy, which can help the patient identify root causes behind drug abuse and help break addictionĀ 
  • Medication, which can treat underlying causes of addiction like depression and anxiety;Ā itĀ can also aid in detoxĀ 
  • Support groups, which provide a sense of solidarity for the person with substance use disorder, and potentially introduce them toĀ newĀ sober friends to replace those they lostĀ after quitting addictionĀ 

Sometimes people on their journey to break addiction must go through detoxification or detox, which is a step-in treatment that involves a methodical, medically supervised removal of the substance from the body, lessening withdrawal reactions.4 For people addicted to multiple substances, detox is often a necessary step towards quitting an addiction.Ā Ā 

Positive Psychology to Break Addiction

Sometimes, the hardest part of recovery is discovering new habits to fill the time you used to spend using substances. There are positive habits toĀ look intoĀ when trying to stop addiction, including:Ā Ā 

  • Meditation:Ā Meditating promotes a sense of calm and wellbeing, and according to one study,Ā meditation practices can be an effective therapy for relapse prevention in alcohol dependence.5Ā 
  • Building connections:Ā Creating a strong support system for yourself and building healthy connections with others can create a sense of fulfillment in your life, effectively aiding you to quit addiction.Ā 
  • Gratitude exercises:Ā Practicing gratitude, by journaling or meditating, can promote wellbeing and appreciation for yourself, your loved ones, and your new way of life.Ā 
  • Engaging activities: Sometimes distraction is the best way to cope with difficult feelings. Engaging in fun activities that get you into a flow state can be a great antidote to negative feelings sometimes associated with addiction recovery.Ā Ā 

The Importance of a Relapse Prevention Plan

AĀ Journal of American Medical Association study shows that relapse rates for substance use disorders are 40%Ā to 60%.6Ā As such, it is essentialĀ to create a relapse prevention plan.Ā A relapse prevention plan works by establishingĀ theĀ triggers that lead to substance use, and how to avoid them. ItĀ isĀ also a good resource to have when you feel cravings for substances.Ā Ā  A relapse prevention plan can look something like this:7Ā  Ā 

KnowĀ the SignsĀ of RelapseĀ 

You know yourself better than anyone else, and sometimes people struggling with substance abuse disorder can feel a relapse coming on weeks, or even months in advance. Maybe a death in the family will send your emotions into a place that primes you for a relapse; maybe going to a party where there will be alcohol, you will be more prone to relapse. Get to know your emotions and moodsĀ toĀ know when relapse is most likely for youā€”you can prevent it more effectively if you see it coming.Ā  Ā Ā 

GetĀ to Know Your TriggersĀ 

Some common relapse triggers are bad relationships, stress, poor self-care, withdrawal symptoms, being around people who use, and going to the places you used to use. Ruminating over past experiences with substances can also be a trigger. Itā€™s important to understand addiction vs. obsession; even once addiction has ceased, obsession with past substance use can trigger future use. Avoid triggers to avoid relapse. Ā 

Remember Your ReasonsĀ for QuittingĀ 

In your moments of weakness, when relapse feels like the only thing you can think about, remember why you quit in the first place. Think about how sick you were when you were using, or how you may have hurt the people you love. Focus on how much better your life will be when you are healthy, empowered, and closer to your loved ones.Ā 

Ask forĀ HelpĀ 

You do notĀ have to recoverĀ alone andĀ getting support can make the road to sobriety much easier. Counselors, family, friends, and support groups like AA and NA can help you. Ā 

Care forĀ YourselfĀ 

ThisĀ stepĀ means first managing withdrawal symptoms with prescribed medications and professional help.Ā BeingĀ sure to get enough sleep, eat healthy foods, andĀ getĀ exercise willĀ alsoĀ help you feel better. Look for healthy ways to rewardĀ yourself andĀ spend time doing the things you love.Ā Ā 

Most of all, treat yourself with kindness and compassion, as quitting addiction is not an easy process.Ā But, if you do relapse, remember that recovery is a marathon, not a race. Relapsing two, three, four times is common on the journey to sobriety. The most important thing to do is keep trying, even if you fail.Ā 

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